10 Unconventional Tips for Solo Travel in Spain
In this guide, I’m sharing tips for women traveling solo in Spain. You’ve probably read a million solo travel guides that tell you the same generic, touristy things to do – go to this cathedral, eat [insert popular dish], drink [insert popular beverage]. This is not one of those guides! Spain is one country where you should ditch those cookie-cutter travel tips. If you’re a female solo traveler looking to have an amazing time in Spain, here are 10 unconventional travel tips for you.
This is the 9th post in the Spain Bucket List Series. Here’s the complete series:
Spain Bucket List Series
Culture: 9 Experiences You Must Have in Spain
Food: 6 Dishes to Eat in Spain Besides Paella and Tapas
Packing tips: The Ultimate Packing List for Your Summer Vacation in Spain
Travel Tips: 10 Travel Tips You Need To Know Before Visiting Spain
Inspiration:15 Photos That Will Inspire You to Visit the Cies Islands
Off the beaten path: 8 Underrated Cities You Need To Visit in Spain
Beaches: The 10 Best Beaches in Spain You Should Visit Before You Die
Solo Travel: 10 Unconventional Tips For Female Solo Travelers in Spain
Barcelona: A Self-Guided Walking Tour of Barcelona
Granada: Why Granada is the Best Place to Visit in Spain
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Tips for women traveling solo in Spain
1. Don’t take the train
Yes, don’t take Renfe, the national train system, to travel around the country. Renfe Avila (medium distance) and Renfe Ave (long distance) are the two types of trains that can get you from one city to another. I’ve taken both of them and had a smooth ride every time.
There are two problems though: tickets can get ridiculously expensive, and the train feels so impersonal when you’re traveling alone. The solution? Take a Bla Bla Car. Bla Bla what? I know the name is odd, but this ride-sharing service is my preferred method of travel in Spain. To get started, you create an account on their website. After it’s verified, you’re able to find drivers in your area who are traveling to different destinations within Spain. Sometimes you can make an instant reservation and other times the driver needs to approve it. You, the driver, and the other passengers then choose a meeting place and carpool together.
The great thing about Bla Bla Car is that it’s always cheaper than the train – we’re talking like 90% savings. You also get to meet interesting people and practice your Spanish. I’ve actually learned a lot about Spanish culture from the conversations I’ve had on these drives. It’s also much better to see the landscapes across Spain from a car than from a train. If you want to use Bla Bla Car, it really helps to speak some Spanish so you can communicate with the driver (and the passengers if you want.) Or you could use Google to just figure out the driver’s instructions.
I’ve taken Bla Bla Car maybe 15 times and have never paid more than 40 euros (one-way). You can go from Madrid to Barcelona for 25 euros with Bla Bla Car. The train will cost somewhere around 80 euros if you book in advance.
2. Look beyond hostels.
The conventional wisdom is that staying at a hostel allows you to meet people more easily. Well, it depends. I’ve stayed at quite a few hostels where my roommates were not social. Even in the common area, people kept to themselves. There is a bit of luck involved in meeting people at a hostel. Of course, you can read reviews, but who knows the types of personalities who will be present during your stay?
You may have a better experience staying at an Airbnb – more comfort and personal space usually. When you book an Airbnb, check the reviews to see if the host would be a good guide. Do they offer recommendations to guests for what to do, see, and eat? Normal people renting out their apartments are more likely to recommend non-touristy things to do than hostel receptionists. I’ve only stayed in one hostel in Spain and had to move it because it was filthy. Maybe I’m biased against hostels in Spain due to that, but I’ve had much better experiences staying at people’s homes than at hostels.
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3. Don’t spend a lot of time in Madrid and Barcelona
Spain is a vast country with 17 autonomous communities, 2 islands, and 2 territories in Africa. There is so much to see beyond Madrid and Barcelona. In fact, the most beautiful beaches, palaces, and landscapes are not even in those two cities.
I’m not saying you shouldn’t visit Madrid and Barcelona. No, they offer a lot of attractions that you should definitely go see. What I do recommend is that you spend more time in other parts of Spain – Galicia, Andalucia, the Basque Country, Castilla y Leon – to really experience the Spanish way of life. Madrid and Barcelona are too touristy and commercial for you to have a traditional experience if that’s what you’re looking for.
4. Eat Rabo de Toro
Honestly, Spanish food isn’t my favorite. I love their appetizers (croquetas!) and seafood (pulpo!), but their main courses tend to be hit or miss for me. The issue is that I like spicy food with lots of different ingredients, condiments, herbs, the whole shebang. Spanish food is the complete opposite. Spaniards like to use simple ingredients in their food – mostly just olive oil and salt. I can appreciate simple flavors, but I just don’t crave that sort of food.
Then I tried Rabo de Toro, Spain’s version of oxtail stew. I was skeptical. I had had Jamaican oxtail before, and it was kicking! How would Rabo de Toro compare? It was rich, flavorful, and so filling. What a pleasant surprise.
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5. Drink Clara con Limon

Clara con Limon is the first thing I order when I go to a bar in Spain. It’s simple – you pour some beer in a glass and add lemon Fanta. This drink is so refreshing! And it’s a good alternative if you’re tired of drinking sangria.
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6. Visit the small islands
You’ve probably heard of Ibiza or Mallorca, but Spain has beautiful, small islands that are much less touristy. They also have some of the best beaches in Spain. Here are a couple of them to consider:
- Menorca – just a 30-minute ferry ride from Ibiza, Menorca is home to secluded, idyllic beaches, like Cala Macarelleta
Photo credit: spain-holiday.com - Formentera – another paradise for beach lovers, Formentera features some of the clearest water you’ll ever see.
- The Cies Islands – Playa de Rodas, part of this protected natural habitat in Galicia, was voted the most beautiful beach in the world by National Geographic. Need I say more?
7. Watch a Flamenco show in a cave
Of course, you have to see a Flamenco show in Spain. Better yet, go see a traditional Flamenco in Andalucia, the birthplace of the dance. I first saw a Flamenco performance in a cave-like room located within the gypsy neighborhood of Granada. I still remember it really well six years later! That’s how powerful the performances were. You can catch a Flamenco show like this is in any city or town in Andalucia – Granada, Cadiz, Jaen, Sevilla, to name a few.

8. Go on a group tour to somewhere not on your radar
Cuenca. Jerez de la Frontera. Zaragoza, Caceres. Those are lesser-known cities that normally wouldn’t be on anyone’s Spain bucket list. But you’d be surprised at the architecture, art, history, and beauty you’ll find in those places. Case in point: I went to Cuenca not expecting much, but it turned out to be one of the most interesting places I’ve visited in Spain. There’s a mountain there with giant eyes drawn on it and some houses hanging off a cliff. Group trips, like those offered by We Love Spain and Be Madrid, are great for visiting these lesser-known places because you get a guided tour.

9. Try squid ink Paella

At first, I thought ‘What, squid ink? No way!’ Then one night I went out for dinner with a friend in Granada. I was craving good ole chicken Paella, but they had run out. The options were either rabbit Paella, which is the original kind, or squid ink Paella. I stopped eating red meat so the rabbit was a no go. But squid ink? I wasn’t too sure, but I was curious. I ordered it. Delicious! I was really surprised. It had a nice, smoky flavor. Mix in some aioli sauce and it’s even better.
10. Visit the Alcazar of Segovia
The Alcazar de Segovia (Castle of Segovia) is a real-life Cinderella castle. In fact, it was Walt Disney’s main inspiration for the castle in Cinderella. There is a stairway that leads to the top, where you can get a stunning view of the city and the highlands in the distance. I have a mental picture of my experience standing on top of the castle and looking at the vast dry lands in the distance.
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Great ideas for traveling to Spain. Flamenco in a cave sounds fab!!
Flamenco in a cave is a must! Best show I’ve seen in Spain.
Yes! Some great advice 🙂 The more I’ve got off the beaten path and away from the big cities the more I love this country. And I’d always recommend eating and drinking like a local – eating breakfast and traditional tapas in the little, inperfect, wonderful bars of this country. It’s a great way to experience real life in Spain 🙂
Hi Alice,
I totally agree! I love making new Spanish friends and going to their favorite tapas bars. You get to really experience the real Spain. I’ve also had the best experiences in smaller cities, like Bilbao, Granada, and Vigo.
This is great! Hoping to make it back to Spain and explore more of the country next year. Thanks for the tips!
You’re very welcome, Jen. Enjoy Spain!
Hi, I am going to travel to Spain solo, in August this year. I am from India and I am worried that Spanish people don’t mingle well with non-white people. Apologies if I am wrong. But what is that you suggest that would help me break the ice with locals! I really want to experience the local scene by interacting with them.
Hi Vitasta,
You’re right that Spaniards prefer to mingle with white foreigners than non-whites. At the same time, young people (30 and under) tend to be more open-minded. I went to language exchanges and became friends with young Spaniards that way. The main issue is how good your Spanish is. If you speak a decent amount of Spanish you can make friends more easily. Hope that helps!
Somto
Howdy! A question about the safety issue;as a solo female traveller who isn’t white, how careful do you actually have to be? Having read your articles on Spaniards réactions to different races and the reputed stereotypes of Spanish men, I am wondering if my skin colour is actuly going to leave me less susceptible to the casual sexual harassment?
Hi Sarah,
I’ve traveled solo extensively in Spain and haven’t experienced any sort of sexual harassment or safety concerns. Just follow the same precautions you would elsewhere – don’t walk alone at night, keep your belongings in sight, and don’t flash your valuables. One place where you do have to be careful is Barcelona. A handful of black female travelers have reported being mistaken for prostitutes. This happens most often at night on a street called Las Ramblas. There is also quite a bit of pickpocketing. In terms of traveling as a black person, I’ve found the region of Andalucia to be the most welcoming. I feel very at ease there, especially in Granada.
Hello there. Great tips, I’m a novice solo traveler and will be heading there this May. I have A couple of day in Madrid then off to Seville as my homebase. I have the month there. Do you suggest having another place as a homebase after two weeks in Seville? Any suggestions would be greatly appreciated. Places to stay, people to meet, places to eat.
Thx
J
Hi Jackie,
Thanks for the positive feedback! I think Sevilla would make a great home base to explore Andalucia, which is the absolute most incredible part of Spain. It would be perfectly fine to stay there for a month and get to know one place. But if you’d like somewhere else to stay for two weeks, I’d recommend Granada. In Sevilla, I’d recommend you’d try a dish called Solomillo Al Whiskey (if you’re not a vegetarian). To meet people, I normally go to language exchanges, which you can find by searching Facebook groups. The best way to find places to eat is to ask the locals – start with the staff at your accommodation. But always ask them where they personally like to eat. Do you speak Spanish?
I hope that helps!
Hey Somto,
I am going to Spain solo for the second summer in a row (I studied in Alicante in 2015) and I’m wondering what are some tips for when you really start to feel either bored/lonely which is inevitable during solo travel? I went last summer but had people there with me for most parts of the trip. Also how do you handle going out at night? BTW the Flamenco show I went to in Granada was also in a cave/directly across from the Alhambra! I’ve been twice and hope to go for a third time this summer!!!
Hi Jordan,
Going to Granada again sounds awesome! I absolutely love Granada, my favorite city in Spain. In response to your question about getting lonely on a solo trip, what I do when I get lonely is to occupy myself. If I don’t feel like going out, I’ll watch a movie, read a book, or plan other things to do on my trip. I also check in with my family and share pictures of my trip so far. But I find that the best cure for loneliness is to actually get out of the hotel and go sightseeing. I had an episode of loneliness on my recent trip to Puerto Rico and went to a bar down the street, where I ended up meeting new people and chatting for a couple of hours. It worked like magic. I hope this helps!
Great Tips on Spain travel. I’ve been to a Flamenco show was and it was awesome. I will have to go to one in a cave next time, that sounds amazing. I cannot wait to go back to Spain, it’s so beautiful there.
Hi Shunda,
Thanks for your comment! A Flamenco show in a cave is a must! I can’t wait to experience one again.